#2 – Presentation Is Key
People see only what you show them. If you’re showcasing your insecurities, people will notice them. The spotlight effect is when you think everyone around you is focusing on a feature about yourself, when really, they haven’t noticed. What people really notice is the uncomfortable fidgeting and self-deprecating jokes you make so nobody else does. If there’s nothing you can do to change it, then embrace it! Play off your insecurities confidently and nobody will doubt you.