#3 – Go One Step Further Than Window Shopping – Making a Move

This one is for men and women. We didn’t want to leave anyone out since both sexes are equally inclined to approach. Once you have noticed someone and they have noticed you – look at something they are wearing and give a light compliment. Then, touch them as you do that. You don’t need to be overt. Just keep it to a compliment on the tie he is wearing and touch only above the belt and on the arm if possible. Retract it immediately and continue the conversation if they are returning the communication positively. Do not throw yourself at them – it’s a bar, and you may give the wrong impression.